I have cycled for 35 years. What else in life do we repeat this many times? It is still a topic of conversation not mentioned so much. Compare it to films, food or work. This repetitive experience doesn’t get much air time does it!
We are all aware of the stories of red tents and lodges within our ancestral history. Women gathered, they talked, they shared, they would bleed and be supported . And I imagine they laughed and they cried…..together. These are now just that, stories, the inter-generational support, the experience and wisdom from Grandmothers is no longer passed down. Our ancestral roots and rituals of women gathering as family, community and tribe are lost.
What does this silence repeat to our younger generations? What does the silence do to our bodies? What patterns get repeated?
How would visibility around menstruation change the nature of womanhood? Imagine a culture of cycle awareness and respect for women in their bleed time. It would possible look something like this, flexibility in the workplace and receiving space to nurture your body and emotions as you bleed. Imagine a generation of elder women supporting you and answering all your questions about your bleed.
So my question is, how does our next generation benefit from our silence?
September 13, 2020 at 8:38 pm
Hated everyone of them. Misery, no doctor would help. Couldn’t find a good gynecologist who would listen to me. One accused me of lying about it to get birth control pills. Culminated in ovarian cancer. I would not recommend that path.
September 13, 2020 at 8:50 pm
Thank you for sharing. I hear you. And I am so sorry you when through this. Thank you for your comment. Let’s hope by talking, talking and talking some more that other feel they can ask for help and receive what they need. Thank you for speaking out xxx